The Women's Collective for Adoptee Equality is dedicated to advancing the rights and well-being of adult adopted persons by leveraging the voices of women who have lost children to adoption (“birthmothers”) in the political process for unrestricted adoptee rights legislation. Members are organizations created by and for women who lost children to adoption.
Member Organizations
Our Goals
Clarify the Distinction: Educate policymakers on the distinction between privacy and secrecy in unrestricted adoptee rights legislation.
PRIVACY
Privacy refers to the ability to control information about oneself and involves the basic human right to keep certain aspects of one's life or personal information away from public scrutiny or unauthorized access.
SECRECY
Secrecy is the deliberate act of hiding something from someone even if they have a legitimate reason to access it. Adopted persons have a right to a vital record about themselves so current policy is based on secrecy and not privacy.
Highlight Birthmother Support: Elevate awareness that birthmothers overwhelmingly support adult adoptees and dispel misconceptions about legally defensible privacy agreements.
We want legislators to understand that those who oppose equality for adoptees are co-opting the voices of birthmothers by claiming they want privacy. It’s usually adoption agencies, churches or other entities who have something to gain by keeping women who lost children to closed adoption silent. When birthmothers speak—ie. here, here, here, and here— they support adult adopted persons pursuing their equality.
Showcase Adoptee/Women's Rights Crossover: Educate policymakers on the intersectionality of adoptee rights bills with women's rights, emphasizing how keeping a discriminatory policy in place against adult adopted persons in the name of “protecting birthmothers” actually perpetuates the demeaning stereotype that as women who lost children to adoption, they are weak and less than competent adults who need state protection to handle their most basic affairs. It is far from the truth to believe birthmothers are actually protected in any way when we deny an adopted person access to their original birth certificate. All it actually does is reinforce the misogyny they experienced as women who were shunned and shamed for becoming pregnant out-of-wedlock in a more conservative society. Read more
Actualize Privacy: Educate policymakers on the benefits of unrestricted adoptee rights laws for both adoptees and birthmothers, particularly in the era of consumer DNA testing. Technology has officially outpaced the law and the most private option for everyone today is restoring unrestricted rights to adult adopted persons. It restores autonomy to everyone whose anonymity was forced on them from the closed adoption-era. Read more
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Adoptee equality means a state law is in place that protects an adult adopted persons’ unrestricted right to request their own original birth certificate.
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